Introducing the LOVE LANGUAGE UPGRADE WORKBOOK: guiding you through A STEP-BY-STEP PROCESS to GET MORE OUT OF LIFE & LOVE.
The step-by-step guide that every growth minded couple needs to upgrade how they give & receive love.
If you're ready to feel understood by one another on an even deeper level, and have a wildly rewarding relationship…
Then it's time to upgrade your Love Languages.
Most people think that simply knowing each other's love languages is enough.
…and this is why most couples can go for years feeling like one person is putting in more effort, or like they're doing things out of expectations rather than love and appreciation.
They may even go their whole lives without ever having had intentional conversations to grow and evolve the way they express love to one another. Getting stuck in patterns and assumptions of who they were 10,15,20+ years ago.
Knowing your love languages is only the beginning to a much deeper understanding of not only your partner, but yourself.
what's inside the free Love language upgrade workbook?
You're not the couple that accepts “it is what it is” when it comes to how you live and experience life. You know that the best way to get the most out of life & love is to continue to learn & challenge yourselves.
Pre-work, so you walk into the conversation prepared and in the best mindset.
How to create an inviting (fresh) space for intentional discussion to occur.
Conversation prompts to dive deep into the ways you can upgrade how you both give & receive love.
Techniques and ideas to help you improve listening skills.
Scripts & questions to ask for more understanding of what the other needs and how you can support them.
Two homework exercises to continue to practice after the initial conversation comes to a close.
The Nickls
Hi, we are Alex & Hannes Nickl. Authors of the Love Language Upgrade Workbook and coaches for growth minded couples.
The first time we took the “Love Languages” quiz our results were pretty different! I remember “acts of service” ranked first for me, and fourth for Hannes! You can start to imagine the gap between how each of you prefers to give and receive love may cause some misunderstandings and disharmony.
The quiz helped put a few things into perspective and has continued to surprise us over the years by sparking conversations time and time again, and seeing how much we have both grown and evolved from when we first took the quiz, through our continued commitment to each other.
We condensed the work and conversations we've had over 7 years into a comprehensive process for you. Providing you with the exact questions to ask, how to set the mood, and save you a whole lot of time and confusion! We hope you enjoy it!
Love is the goal!
Life together can be pretty beautiful.
Sometimes you just need a little help to get there.